REI is having a great sale right now until April 18th!
Save 20% on one item (excluding sale and clearance items) - visit http://www.rei.com/promotions/member-rewards-coupon.html to see more details.
Use Coupon Code Member20 to save - if you are not already a member, you can joing for $20.
This would be a great time to get that BOB stroller you've been dying to get, or any other great get-out-there with your kids product that REI carries.
That being said, this sale is best if you are a)already a member (or really want to be and $20 will be well-spent for the perks), and b)live near an REI to pickup your item for free(shipping over $75 is free on some items, but there are exclusions - check to see if your item is one of them).
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Why I chose "Romantic Notions of Motherhood" as my blog title...
Before I became a mother, I had many romantic notions of motherhood...
I tried to learn everything I could growing up to be a good wife and mother someday - I put all my life experiences into an internal file to draw from later, sure that these would prove to be the majority of the information I needed to raise a child. I had many notions of what every aspect of motherhood would be like. Here are some pre-baby examples on my thinking:
1. You can achieve balance between working and having children - I once wrote a college paper based on this thesis, after narrowing it down (really... now I see how broad it still is). At the time, I was working full time, often long hours and I guess just assumed everything would balance itself. Well, once I had my first daughter, I learned so much about this "thesis" of mine that I think it was ridiculous for me to even think about writing on the topic before having a child. Once I went back to work after six weeks of maternity leave, (which goes by so, so fast) I dealt with daily anxiety about my baby not being in my care... What if the nanny/babysitter called while I was in a meeting or out of the office and it was an emergency? What if something horrible happened to my child and I wasn't there? On top of that, I had trouble finding someone to care for my daughter after the first caretaker moved away, and I wouldn't let just anyone take care of my precious child. I'm not talking about whether or not they spoke Latin and French... nothing like that - I just wanted to find someone I knew without a doubt I could trust and that was prepared to handle any situation with my child. Perhaps my anxiety stemmed from unrealistic expectations - I mean, I know that things happen that you can't always be prepared for... Anyway, those anxieties are the reason I am now a Stay at Home Mom (SAHM). I truly feel for those who have no choice but to stay at work when they want to stay at home. On the flip side, I do miss working, too (or certain aspects of my previous job).
2. I can exercise as much as I want being a SAHM - Ahhh, exercise... I used to be in pretty good shape - running, lifting weights, circuit training... Now, running seven miles on a treadmill, then lifting weights afterward, then taking a shower (without some whining or crying), getting a smoothie (and having it all to myself)... those all seem like distant, blissful memories of mine. Ok, I know I need to just work it out, but perhaps in this and subsequent posts you'll understand why fitness has been such a hurdle for me after I started staying at home... maybe I'll do a posting on this subject alone. I will say now, though... I truly thought I could get up early in the morning and work out - or work out as much as I wanted every day.. after all, I would be at home, not working - I was sure there would be plenty of spare moments to steal for exercise... If you're laughing right now, I completely understand...
3. My house will be spotless since I'll be at home - I have been described before as a perfectionist, and as having OCD when it came to cleaning... I don't know if either of those is true or accurate at all, but I do know that no one would use those references now... {sigh} I still use old toothbrushes to clean every nook and cranny, but by the time I've cleaned something to my liking, it seems the whole house is in disarray again... (Again, there are many tangents here that I may expound on in later postings.)
I could spend hours upon hours on my romantic notions of motherhood, but I am holding a sleeping baby in one arm, and typing with my free hand... Besides, there is just so much to do around here other than blogging... So, I will save more to post later.
I tried to learn everything I could growing up to be a good wife and mother someday - I put all my life experiences into an internal file to draw from later, sure that these would prove to be the majority of the information I needed to raise a child. I had many notions of what every aspect of motherhood would be like. Here are some pre-baby examples on my thinking:
1. You can achieve balance between working and having children - I once wrote a college paper based on this thesis, after narrowing it down (really... now I see how broad it still is). At the time, I was working full time, often long hours and I guess just assumed everything would balance itself. Well, once I had my first daughter, I learned so much about this "thesis" of mine that I think it was ridiculous for me to even think about writing on the topic before having a child. Once I went back to work after six weeks of maternity leave, (which goes by so, so fast) I dealt with daily anxiety about my baby not being in my care... What if the nanny/babysitter called while I was in a meeting or out of the office and it was an emergency? What if something horrible happened to my child and I wasn't there? On top of that, I had trouble finding someone to care for my daughter after the first caretaker moved away, and I wouldn't let just anyone take care of my precious child. I'm not talking about whether or not they spoke Latin and French... nothing like that - I just wanted to find someone I knew without a doubt I could trust and that was prepared to handle any situation with my child. Perhaps my anxiety stemmed from unrealistic expectations - I mean, I know that things happen that you can't always be prepared for... Anyway, those anxieties are the reason I am now a Stay at Home Mom (SAHM). I truly feel for those who have no choice but to stay at work when they want to stay at home. On the flip side, I do miss working, too (or certain aspects of my previous job).
2. I can exercise as much as I want being a SAHM - Ahhh, exercise... I used to be in pretty good shape - running, lifting weights, circuit training... Now, running seven miles on a treadmill, then lifting weights afterward, then taking a shower (without some whining or crying), getting a smoothie (and having it all to myself)... those all seem like distant, blissful memories of mine. Ok, I know I need to just work it out, but perhaps in this and subsequent posts you'll understand why fitness has been such a hurdle for me after I started staying at home... maybe I'll do a posting on this subject alone. I will say now, though... I truly thought I could get up early in the morning and work out - or work out as much as I wanted every day.. after all, I would be at home, not working - I was sure there would be plenty of spare moments to steal for exercise... If you're laughing right now, I completely understand...
3. My house will be spotless since I'll be at home - I have been described before as a perfectionist, and as having OCD when it came to cleaning... I don't know if either of those is true or accurate at all, but I do know that no one would use those references now... {sigh} I still use old toothbrushes to clean every nook and cranny, but by the time I've cleaned something to my liking, it seems the whole house is in disarray again... (Again, there are many tangents here that I may expound on in later postings.)
I could spend hours upon hours on my romantic notions of motherhood, but I am holding a sleeping baby in one arm, and typing with my free hand... Besides, there is just so much to do around here other than blogging... So, I will save more to post later.
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Britax Advocate Giveaway!
I have been searching hard to find the best deal on Britax Advocate carseats - baby Sara is already outgrowing her carseat, and I'd like to upgrade Alissa's as well... convincing my husband to get two is a different story... I came across this giveaway today at Baby GoodBuys http://babygoodbuys.com/2010/01/29/giveaway-britax-advocate-cs-convertible-car-seat-review-giveaway.html and I am more than hoping to win. I would be beyond ecstatic because my problem would be completely solved - I could get a new Britax Advocate for Sara, and upgrade Alissa's to offer her the same protection (isn't that only fair?). Oh, pleeeeeease let me win this carseat....
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Saturday, May 30, 2009
Mom4Life Product Review - Pregnancy Piercing
I received my Pregnancy Piercing Belly/Navel Ring in the mail today - and, of course I ordered it from www.Mom4Life.com!
I wish I had found this product during my first pregnancy. Even though I was still able to wear my regular barbell piercing through most of the pregnancy, there got a point where it just wasn't comfortable anymore. I searched every local store I could think of, but couldn't find what I needed. After awhile, I had to take my belly ring out, which was a pain to put back in later. Luckily, I found Mom4Life and they have belly rings that are made for the pregnant belly.
These specific piercings are made from a flexible, medical grade plastic that are perfect for a growing belly. They come in a very generous length to allow for the perfect fit (you cut it yourself). They come in a variety of styles (I chose the heart dangle). You can even order replacement beads (for extras or a to change colors of the bead)!
I am very happy with this product and would highly recommend it to anyone looking to keep their navel piercing throughout and after their pregnancy! Mom4Life also offers non-metallic piercings, so check out the variety at http://www.mom4life.com/catalog.php?item=5.
I wish I had found this product during my first pregnancy. Even though I was still able to wear my regular barbell piercing through most of the pregnancy, there got a point where it just wasn't comfortable anymore. I searched every local store I could think of, but couldn't find what I needed. After awhile, I had to take my belly ring out, which was a pain to put back in later. Luckily, I found Mom4Life and they have belly rings that are made for the pregnant belly.
These specific piercings are made from a flexible, medical grade plastic that are perfect for a growing belly. They come in a very generous length to allow for the perfect fit (you cut it yourself). They come in a variety of styles (I chose the heart dangle). You can even order replacement beads (for extras or a to change colors of the bead)!
I am very happy with this product and would highly recommend it to anyone looking to keep their navel piercing throughout and after their pregnancy! Mom4Life also offers non-metallic piercings, so check out the variety at http://www.mom4life.com/catalog.php?item=5.
Friday, May 29, 2009
Mom4Life Product Review
I just received "The Body Silk Seamless Nursing Bra" by Bravado from
www.Mom4Life.com and wanted to give it a fab review.
This bra is truly comfortable; comfort being something that can be quite hard to find in undergarments during pregnancy or nursing.
I've previously tried several brands, at least two of which were underwire (not good for nursing). (This was before I found Mom4Life.) Most of the bras I've tried are not lined, either, which I think is so important. I decided to try this specific bra after asking Mom4Life owner, Heather her recommendations.
The Body Silk Seamless Nursing Bra is smooth, seamless, yet still supportive. From the great amount of stretch, I think it should still fit well into nursing. I sure hope so! I think I'm going to have to get another one!
www.Mom4Life.com and wanted to give it a fab review.
This bra is truly comfortable; comfort being something that can be quite hard to find in undergarments during pregnancy or nursing.
I've previously tried several brands, at least two of which were underwire (not good for nursing). (This was before I found Mom4Life.) Most of the bras I've tried are not lined, either, which I think is so important. I decided to try this specific bra after asking Mom4Life owner, Heather her recommendations.
The Body Silk Seamless Nursing Bra is smooth, seamless, yet still supportive. From the great amount of stretch, I think it should still fit well into nursing. I sure hope so! I think I'm going to have to get another one!
Monday, May 18, 2009
Great Cloth Diaper Hunt
Thanks to my obsession with Mom4Life, I've found the Great Cloth Diaper Hunt!
What fun! I've found sooo many great websites, resources, and products I didn't even know existed! Plus, to know so many people are interested in cloth diapering, natural living, eco-friendliness is awesome, and reassuring =) Check out the contest - you'll find yourself scouring websites for little diaper icons into the wee hours of the night =)
Friday, May 1, 2009
Mother Load Giveaway
My favorite online baby boutique is having an absolutely fabulous giveaway!!!!
Can you tell I'm excited?! I don't know my odds of winning any of the prizes, but I would be absolutely thrilled to win any (especially the bebe au lait cover or the abdominal compression binder). Of course, whomever wins the "motherload" is one lucky mother!
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